When it comes to sex toys, there’s nothing more controversial than the dildo. Whether you use it for anal play, vaginal stimulation, or as a gag gift, there’s no denying the intensity of its shape and design. But one question many people have is which way does a dildo go?

Well for starters, no one should ever place the dildo in any way that looks uncomfortable or causes pain – it’s all about exploring what feels good for both partners. That said, the most common way to use a dildo is to slide it in and out of the vagina or anus. Depending on the shape and design of the toy, dildos can be used in a variety of ways or even spun around for extra sensation.

That said, it’s important to choose a size and shape that’s comfortable for both partners as an excessively large or small dildo can be uncomfortable. Pay attention to the width, material, size and any extra features – such as suction cups – before buying. Remember, everyone’s different in what they like and prefer, so it’s important to explore and find something that works for you.

When it comes to lube, water based lubricants are the best for silicone toys, while oil based lubricants are better for latex dildos. If you’re going to use a lubricant, it’s important to select compatible types, meaning the lube shouldn’t damage the toy or put your body at risk. Always clean your toys after use and store away in a safe place.

When it comes to dildos, please don’t forget the most important rule: safety first. Use condoms and consider using a dental dam for anal play. It’s also a good idea to keep an extra set or two of batteries around just in case. It may sound silly, but a dildo that doesn’t work can put a serious damper on things.

So which way does a dildo go? In the end, it’s really down to personal preference and exploration. Experiment to find out what gives you or your partner the most pleasure. Be sure to take breaks if it gets too intense and really enjoy the experience.

Now that you know which way a dildo goes, let’s talk about other ways you can use it. If you have a more conventional dildo, you can try pleasure techniques like spot stimulation, which can be used to directly hit pressure points very delicately. Or twirling, where the dildo is inserted into the vagina and spun in circles.

Another technique is pulsation, which is when the dildo is inserted all the way and then gently pulled out a few inches and then pushed back in. This can create a focused sensation that feels really good when done right. You can also use the same technique on a penis for a more sensual experience.

Then there’s the rocking technique, which moves the dildo back and forth and is great for G-spot stimulation. You can also add a vibrator to the mix for extra sensation. As with any sex dolls toy, it’s important to start slow and remember to keep communication open with your partner as you experiment.

Finally, we have hands-free. You can attach the dildo to a chair, or wall, and then use your hands elsewhere. This can be an incredibly pleasurable experience, especially when combined with a vibrator. You can even attach the base of the dildo to a harness or strap-on and explore a side of pleasure you may not have considered before.

So there you have it. Whether you’re a beginner or an experienced enthusiast, make sure you know which way a dildo goes before you get busy. Communication and experimentation are key, and a few minutes of trial and error can go a long way in finding out what works best for you and your partner. So, what are you waiting for? It’s time to get your dildo on!