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The other day, I stumbled upon a topic that made me curious: the use of sex toys. I know that it is kind of a taboo topic to talk about, but I figured I would share my personal experience with it while providing helpful advice on the same.
First and foremost, let me just say that I don’t feel shame or embarrassment when it comes to talking about sex toys. I think they can be super useful and a great addition to any relationship, if both partners are comfortable with it. They’re a great way to spruce things up in the bedroom and add a little excitement. Plus, it’s important to understand that they are not a replacement for sex – they’re just a different way of exploring each other’s pleasure.
When it comes to using a sex toy for the first time, it’s important to approach it with an open mind. Remember that it can be an incredibly intimate activity and it should be approached as such. If you’re nervous or anxious, make sure that you communicate that to your partner so they can be really supportive and understanding. Trust me, it’ll make a world of a difference.
It’s also important to take your time and find a toy that is comfortable for both of you. Do some research beforehand, as there are many sizes and shapes out there, and different materials each might be made of. This is also a good opportunity to talk to your partner about what kind of stimulation they prefer or might respond to.
Once you’ve found the right toy, it’s time to make sure it is ready to go! Please make sure your toy is clean before you use it, and also that you have plenty of lube and perhaps a few condoms (because you know what they say use protection!) In terms of lube, it’s also important to do a patch test to make sure it doesn’t cause any irritation.
Since safety and cleanliness should always come first, the real fun can start once everything is ready. Don’t be afraid to experiment! Go slow and keep verbal communication going. If something does not feel good or pleasurable, don’t be afraid to stop and adjust accordingly. It’s not a race, it’s a journey!
Now that we’ve established the basics of using a sex toy, let’s move on to some more particular tips and tricks. It’s always a good idea to start off with something small before moving onto the more “advanced” toys. This is also a great opportunity to explore various fantasies and role play scenarios with your partner, which could be a really fun and exciting way of taking your toy play to the next level.
Also, don’t be afraid to try different positions. As previously mentioned, it’s all about the exploration and experiment! Being adventurous can be really exciting and can help you and your partner find new ways of stimulating each other.
Finally, make sure you have plenty of (sex) toys available. Variety is key! What you’re looking for are completely different experiences, so don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone and explore the world of sex toys. Whether it’s vibrators, dildos, cock rings, or anal beads, the bedroom is your playground!